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I am a performer.
My stage is not in Hollywood, California or in an off-Broadway theatre on the streets of New York. Rather, it was in my classrooms growing up. But I wasn't the class clown. I was the hard-worker. I sat in the front row, listened attentively, and turned beet red if I ever got in trouble. One day in sixth grade, I almost got detention for chewing gum.
I thought my world had ended. What would my parents say of my actions?
I am a director.
My stage doesn't have bright lights or movie cameras. There isn't a star sign on my dressing room door. No, my stage now is in my own house and I find myself using a director's voice more than a doting mother's tone most of the time.
I am a performer and a director. I expect things to move like clock-work, for people to say their lines, to be where they are supposed to be. "Do not diverge from the script!" I might say. Going off the beaten path, striking out on your own, unconformity, no that is not me.
I perform so that you will like me. I perform so you will think I am good. I perform so that I can get your accolades. I may not come off as a diva, but it's all a selfish facade, just the same.
I direct because I want it my way. Don't change the plan. I don't like to feel uncomfortable. I don't like not knowing what comes next.
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